Banning abortion in the most heart-breaking of circumstances
Recent polling shows that Americans continue to believe that it should be a woman's decision when and whether to start a family - and that abortion needs to remain an option.
When you think about a woman who chooses abortion, it's easy to assume it is due to an unintended pregnancy. But that's not the whole story.
There are also women who are happily pregnant and can't wait to welcome a child into the world. Sadly, even women with wanted pregnancies need the right to access abortion.
Dana is one of these women. When Dana went to her 29-week sonogram, she learned that there were grave complications with her pregnancy. The fetus suffered from multiple brain abnormalities and it was uncertain whether the pregnancy would survive to term.
Christy is also one of these women. Christy received a tragic diagnosis when she had a sonogram at 21 weeks pregnant when she learned the fetus she was carrying was suffering from multiple severe anomalies including a rare birth defect in which the central connecting structure of the brain is absent. Christy and her husband consulted medical experts around the world and were told that, if the fetus survived the pregnancy, which was uncertain, the baby would be in a state of near-constant seizures, requiring numerous surgeries to remove what little of the brain matter remained.
After discussing their circumstances with their families and their doctors, each woman chose abortion.
It's hard to imagine the grief Dana, Christy, and their families must have endured when they received a life-changing diagnosis.
Despite the fact that we can't know each woman's circumstances, anti-choice politicians continue working to take away a woman's right to choose what is best for her and her family in situations like this.
Who could be so heartless? Lawmakers in North Dakota, for starters. According to Buzzfeed, Americans United for Life - an anti-choice organization - is working with lawmakers in several states to block abortion access. One tactic is to criminalize doctors who provide abortion care to women facing tragic circumstances like Dana or Christy.
We will be doing all that we can to stop these bills. Please consider sharing your story so that women's voices aren't silenced in this debate.


This past summer (2012), after nine months of trying, I finally conceived.
At seven weeks I was diagnosed ectopic and hemorrhaging. I was rushed to the emergency room for a surgical intervention.
This procedure was medically necessary, as I was in immediate physical danger. Losing my baby was tragic and traumatic for both me and my husband.
According to my insurance provider, what I had was an abortion.
According to some lawmakers, I should've been denied that - even though the embryo would've NEVER been viable, and even though what I wanted most in the world right then was to have my baby.
My Abortion. About a week after my husband's vasectomy we found out I was pregnant. We were close to 40 and our daughters were 10 and 8 years old. Went for an amnio at 16 weeks. Problems were found during the ultrasound prior to the amnio. The doctor said water on the brain and the baby had a shell like covering. A week later at a second ultrasound found the head was twice the normal size, a collapsed,lung, small heart, organs seemed to be growing at different rates, edema all over. Doctor said not going to get a heartbeat in next couple months. Almost bled to death from a miscarriage 7 years prior. Opted to terminate. And, a year later I was pregnant again. The vasectomy wasn't successful. My baby is now 21 and my other daughters are 33 and 31 and I am 61 and I have 3 grandchildren. And I am Catholic.
The most absurd thing about abortion is that it is discussed more by men than by the concerned women. Most of these men use their own prejudices to force their thoughts on women. It is this sad. Abortion is based left to each individual to decide.